Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Why are you horrible?

I came across something tonight online that really made my heart sink.
This is the video
I couldn't watch it 'til the end because I started to feel like it was starting to get hard for me to simply swallow.
Immediately I tried to find out more.
I must confess,
I was hoping that dr.Phil would tear this woman a new a-hole.
All I could find was this
and this

I think about parenting a lot.
The summer my son was conceived I was 20 years old and walking around telling people that I was probably never going to have kids. Fate, karma, or God stepped in and I got pregnant. It took my nine months to get ready for the idea of being a mom, and parenting has been for me a "learn as you go" process. I do my best to dish out discipline and love so that my son will become someone who has something to offer to the world as he grows up.
However...
I seriously doubt I could parent many children.
As my son has started do get older people have frequently asked me whether I plan to have another one.
The answer is: I really have absolutely no idea.
Although I try to do my best, mothering isn't something I was meant and born to do.
In all honesty,
I think that if I had six kids,
it would possibly bring out the worst in me.
Those are my thoughts about motherhood for this evening.

For those of you whose blood is still boiling with anger,
here is a message from Robin McGraw to the "hot sauce mom".

3 comments:

Mike Hanus said...

I think the most disturbing thing about this lady is that she seems to have no remorse... No shame in her eyes what so ever... No wonder so many kids are dysfunctional and backwards these days. They have ladies like this ruining their childhood development! Sick sick sick people.

Disa said...

wow,
I didn't even notice that before Mike, I actually felt sorry for her while she was being scolded

Jeannine said...

Why would she have SIX? You are a thinking and caring woman and that translates to everything you do... including mothering.